Some of you may know that my brother in law died about a month ago. He was working on his Camero, and it fell on him. My sister found him under his car a few hours later.

My sister is not handling this well. She has been suicidal since she found him dead. It's put a huge strain on our whole family.

She feels that she is alone, that nobody in the world could possibly understand how she is feeling.

Since I do not know what she is going through, all I can do is agree with her, and listen. This helps, but it's not enough.

Right now she is unable/unwilling to get therapy, or seek a support group. This is an ongoing issue that out family is dealing with.

While we try to get her help, I do have a request:

If you or someone you know has lost someone very close to you, would you mind writing a little email to me, that I can pass to my sister. How did you or your loved one make it through this? how did you feel? I need my sister to know that she is not alone, and that she can get through this.


If you can help me....please send the email to me: Brimsauce@aol.com, and title it "memorial" and I'll pass it onto my sister (Gina). I am hoping to get enough that I can bundle them together.

I'd especially like to hear from wives who have lost their husbands, and since most of the people who read my posts are gay men....i'm asking you to ask your mom,sister, aunt or grandmother.

I know this is a huge request, but I am sort of at the end of my rope here. I don't know what else to do.

Thanks!
Brian

I met this guy about 11 years ago, his name was Chris. He would be in his late 20's by now. He worked at a blockbuster video store then,and I think he lived near Christiana mall. He was hoping to be a film major in college.

If anyone knows who this is, would you please let me know. I'd love to talk to him.


Thanks

Quick....

WHO is the last Cylon???

I deserve an award!

I bought windows vista,for my PC and bought a laptop preloaded with Vista. In the beginning I hated it. I have so many compatibility isses with Vista, execially the the 64 bit version. Its seems I can't even use flash, let alone my Beckman Coulter CXP software I need for work.

So I put up with it..and dealt with the cards I had. Remember Vista is not that old.

Now it seems that Microsoft is already to ditch Vista, for Windows 7. WHat the hell!!!

I am not very happy now.

Instead of working the bugs out, they just scrapped it..and now i'm sure i'll have to pay 300 bucks plus to get the new operating system.

I am NOT happy

This is a comment "Brian" made on a Soloflex commercial. I wonder how many friends that asshole has now?

I don't know what to think about it. Is this something that's been happening in the past? It's not even December yet.

I was really disappointed when Clinton lost the Democratic nomination. There is no surprise to that. My thought was that she would unite the country, and better our ties with the rest of the world.

So I have to admit that the news that she may be our next head of state really makes me very happy.

I DO see how important it was, that Obama won. I support him, and now feel that he will do an amazing job. I think he knows how to surround himself with good people. I also DO see him as a "unifier". The feeling in this country now is something very tangiable. I can feel it and see it. For this I am also very happy.

But, do I regreat supporting Clinton from the very beginning? The answer is no.

I'm very excited about the future. I have not felt this way in a long time.

I just bought a new playstation 3. I bought it more for the fact that it plays Blu Ray disks, but I now see that it really has a lot to offer.

Does anyone else have PS3...and are their any games out there worth getting?

My last gaming console was Playstation 1...so i'm a little behind here.

I'm going back to work tomorrow, so I'm trying to get use to sitting up as much as I can. I came across this photo of Barney. I love it. This was taken about 10 years ago.